Mother’s Day 2013

“All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That’s his.” ~ Oscar Wilde

I could not ask for a better day.

I could not ask for a better day.

Allow me to extend my heartfelt gratitude and sincere appreciation to all the moms out there.  Whether you relaxed with breakfast in bed, got pampered with a pedicure, took a nap, or went about business as usual….thank you for all that you do.  A mother is a woman who raises, nurtures, and guides a child whether it grows within you or not.  Let me take this opportunity to tell my own mom how much I love her.  MeMae, Aunt Sarah, Maris, Danielle, and all the other women in my life who are Mommies– much love to you all.

Now THIS is a great card!

Now THIS is a great card!

Last year I spent Mother’s Day curled up in the fetal position, alone in my apartment in California, weeping.  Thank God that chapter of my life is ancient history.  My only ‘complaints’ about today involve Tatum’s tummy bug and Adam’s video game snafu. Our morning consisted of brunch at Interim with my beloved parents, cousins [and Kat], and Aunt Sarah & Uncle Tommy.  Next, Dad and I took Adam to go see the Robert Downey Jr. movie which made both mother and son very happy campers.  ;)

Adam Harrison Reed and Tatum Maris Reed made me a mother.  No words even begin to describe the love I have for my two precious children.  Hands down, they are the best things I’ve ever done– what a tremendous honor to know I played 50% of the role in their creation!– and the best things I will ever do. 

We may not always see eye to eye...but my mother is my best friend and personal hero.

We may not always see eye to eye…but my mother is my best friend and personal hero.

The only card better than our united family’s creation are the cards Adam created for me.  Is there anything more precious than your child’s artwork?!  He made two cards [with the help of Little John] which you see below.  I love the way he nailed my black hair– at least that was its color until several days ago– and glasses.  As for my skin tone, perhaps he’s trying to tell me that I belong on Jersey Shore?  Or maybe he’s seen too many chola chicks in California?  We may never know.

My coloring looks a little off...

My coloring looks a little off…

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

 

 

MBC12

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Day 12: Something you miss

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Adam

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Tatum

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Mom & Dad [and their cozy house]

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My Family

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Maris, Danielle, and all those I consider friends

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Everyone I’ve loved and lost

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Memphis

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Tennessee

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Brooklyn Bridge Italian Restaurant

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Golden India

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RP Tracks

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Taking ridiculously long baths multiple times a day*

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Neshoba

*Not my actual bathtub

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

Fuel of the Gods

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Now there’s a piece of Heaven if I’ve ever seen one. Peter Moon of RP Tracks fame sent this mouth watering image to me via Aunt Sarah.

Maple. Syrup. Infused. Whipped. Cream.

Be sure to check out my review of RP Tracks. And please, if you are in the Memphis area, go eat there for me. You won’t regret it.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

RP Tracks

Some of the decor

Some of the decor at RP Tracks

Let me preface this review with a confession: I am a creature of habit. When I sing the praises of a dining spot, what that really means is I am singing the praises of a particular dish at said dining spot. Buffets notwithstanding, there are only two exceptions to this rule. RP Tracks is one of them. Over the years I’ve eaten no fewer than a dozen dishes and loved them all. Granted, I have my favorite….but the fact that there are multiple menu items that I’ve ordered more than once speaks volumes about my adoration of all things Tracks.

tracks

Virtually every local I asked immediately recalled the discounted shots when the train passes. Who doesn’t love drink specials? In fact, I have some hazy recollections of adventures there during my University of Memphis days. ;)

However, do not make the mistake of dismissing RP Tracks as a college bar.

RP Tracks is a restaurant with a bar, and the food is spectacular. It’s certainly popular with the coeds, especially given its close proximity to campus, but it is truly a restaurant for all ages. Solo students perched on a barstool watching the game, couples whispering in a corner booth, families with children—all spotted during my most recent visit.

Bar area

Bar area

Owned by Peter Moon and Rick Johns, RP Tracks has served the Memphis community for 25 years. It is one of the few restaurants still owned and operated by the original owners—and the two do not take this responsibility lightly. Moon speaks passionately about his vision for the restaurant, which includes plans for an outdoor patio area, and a commitment to affordable prices. Along with manager Jeff Potter, the enthusiasm is contagious, and it comes as no surprise that business is booming.

A massive overhaul of Walker Avenue promises to enhance the establishment and further solidify its status as a Memphis landmark. Yet within the cozy interior it’s the new weekend brunch that’s making waves. Served on Saturday and Sunday from 11-3, I jumped at the opportunity to accompany my aunt to a leisurely post-church meal.

No better partner in culinary crime exists than my fellow bon vivant, Aunt Sarah. I must give credit where it is due—she’s never met a stranger—and our mutual passion for vino only enhances the dining experience. To commence our meal at RP Tracks we opted to honor brunch tradition with a round of Bloody Marys, a beverage that warrants its own paragraph about my rating system.

Hello gorgeous.

Hello gorgeous.

Despite my frequent consumption of the spicy tomato elixir of the gods, I feel woefully inadequate with my descriptive abilities. Here’s the simple breakdown of my criteria:

1) How does the mixer taste?

2) When it comes to alcohol and spice—too much or not enough? I’m not ordering vodka shots with Zing Zang, I want a Bloody Mary. And if it’s too spicy for me I guarantee the average citizen is probably in tears.

3) And what about the extras? Garnish and other special touches make my heart happy;

Mary would be proud. Tracks does her eponymous drink justice. Bonus points for the three jumbo olives and completely submerged pickle.

If a Bloody or Mimosa isn’t your cup of spiked punch, wine starts at $5 and there’s a good selection of beer.

Aunt Sarah & me

Aunt Sarah & me

Since Aunt Sarah and I diligently count calories we gave our math skills a workout by selecting two entrees apiece. She ordered the Brunch Burger and a waffle while I chose the Marvelous Chicken and Quatro Queso quesadilla.

The Brunch Burger includes two 4 oz. Angus beef patties with apple wood bacon, sautéed onions, and pepper jack cheese served on an English muffin. Aunt Sarah requested her hollandaise sauce on the side. She praised the patty and dunked liberally into the hollandaise. With the exception of my yearly filet at Ruth’s Chris I’m not too keen on red meat—so I only took a bite. Yet that carnivorous nibble pleasantly surprised me as it had the taste of something I’d get at Ruth’s Chris as opposed to the typical hamburger.

Brunch Burger

Brunch Burger

Sampling Aunt Sarah’s waffle introduced me to the glory that is RP Tracks’ homemade maple infused whipped cream. Delectable. Scrumptious. Perfection. You know the diner scene from When Harry Met Sally? That’s exactly how I felt after the maple infused whipped cream. My manners flew out the window as I stuck my fingers in the cream and licked them clean. RP Tracks’ tragic flaw is that they do not offer mason jars filled with this divinity.

Maple. Infused. Whipped. Cream.

Maple. Infused. Whipped. Cream.

My absolute favorite dish at Tracks is the Quatro Queso. I’ve been eating it for years. Smoked gouda, feta, and cheddar jack cheeses ooze out of a tomato basil tortilla. Aunt Sarah says it’s comfort food but I view it as a 24/7 food. As soon as I pass through the pearly gates I hope I’m handed a Quatro Queso with a mason jar of maple infused whipped cream so that my palate is satisfied for all eternity.

Say cheese!

Say cheese!

Marinated chicken breast, thick cut apple wood smoked bacon, and Swiss cheese comprise the Marvelous Chicken. However, my penchant for maple infused whipped cream and my other entrée forced me to box the sandwich in its entirety. Upon waking from my food coma I consumed the sandwich cold and it was the perfect late night snack.

Those waffle fries were mighty tasty when dipped in maple infused whipped cream...

Those waffle fries were mighty tasty when dipped in maple infused whipped cream…

All the money in the world couldn’t convince me to eat anything that derives from a coconut—so when Aunt Sarah insisted I try the coconut praline icebox pie I decided it would be a delightful treat for my mother. Suffice it to say she has a new favorite dessert.

Life of Pie

Life of Pie

Only as I tucked my leftovers into the fridge did I notice the conspicuous absence of Styrofoam. A quick virtual search confirmed that RP Tracks is indeed certified by Project Green Fork, an initiative that ‘contributes to a sustainable Mid-South by helping reduce environmental impacts, with a focus on strengthening homegrown restaurants.’ Read more about Project Green Fork and their rigorous six step certification process here.

Perhaps if you’re a Memphian you’ve made the correlation between RP Tracks and RP Billiards. Located a stone’s throw from Tracks, Billiards calls the Highland Strip home, and offers multiple pool tables along with a kitchen and a bar. Patrons entering RP Billiards certainly can’t miss bartender Scotty James and signature top hat.

Scotty James

Scotty James

Here’s what Scotty told me about the job he adores: “It doesn’t matter how many people come to your bar…it’s how many come back!! Making people feel at home is very important. Serving a quality product consistently provides people with comfort. You have to convince customers that you truly care about them—and do it every day.”

And care he does. Scotty’s charismatic personality gives him an easy rapport with those who come to his bar and he consistently goes above and beyond to accommodate customers. Multiple postings on Scotty’s Facebook confirm he was sorely missed by yours truly.

Danielle and I never pass up an opportunity to rendezvous at Billiards.

Danielle and I never pass up an opportunity to rendezvous at Billiards.

Just as Scotty James boasts a loyal following, servers and bartenders at RP Tracks offer an impeccable customer service experience. Prompt and attentive service combined with friendly, personable employees creates a welcoming atmosphere for regulars and newcomers alike—which is no easy feat considering the steady crowd. Oh yeah, and did I mention the delectable food?!

Whether you’re seeking a few rounds of pool, weekend brunch, a satisfying dinner, or reasonably priced drinks—find it all at RP Tracks.

3547 Walker Avenue / Memphis

Christmas party, beta fish, and baby toupees

Tatum decided to make her presence known shortly before our 7th month of pregnancy. ;)

 

The Upper Crust Trattoria hosted our office Christmas party last night, something I wouldn’t have missed for the world.  Although the event was for ‘employees and spouses,’ my husband was a bit indisposed with previous engagements….so Brandi and I made an event out of it!  Of course we completely forgot to take a snapshot of us all dolled up– or of the festivities at the restaurant– so you’ll just have to take my word when I say both of us had a blast.

Brandi ordered the ribeye steak while I opted for the chicken marsala.  Tatum must have known we were someplace wonderful because she kicked incessantly…and proceeded to nap for four and a half hours [she never stops moving] after I wolfed down a plate of Caesar salad, half of each entree, Brandi’s leftovers, and my entire raspberry cheese cake. I typically don’t pay too much attention to aspects of a restaurant other than food and service, but the ambiance at Upper Crust was great.  I loved their cozy waiting area, modern bar space, and the general layout.  For those of you who live in Memphis it reminded me of the entry area of the remodeled Benihana.  The similarities end there but if I had to make a comparison that would be it.

Italian food– and also Indian cuisine [which I have no had since I've been to this area with the exception of a yummy homemade meal prepared by Brandi at NCWS]– keeps me healthy.  Place cheese, pasta, or an Indian buffet in front of me and I’ll devour half my body weight in food.  Not to justify spending money I don’t have on dining out, but it’s hard to feel upset about feeding my pregnant self a hearty meal when I’d be too stressed to eat well otherwise.

Who doesn’t love a white elephant gift exchange?  Thankfully there was a CVS in the shopping center next door so we were able to politely excuse ourselves and make a mad dash when I inevitably forgot to bring my present.  Watching the gifts being opened proved hysterical– some of us thought we were bringing gag gifts while others stuck to more serious items.  Gift cards, candles, and holiday items were sandwiched between a beta fish, a mini golf set that you can play while sitting on the toilet, and the infamous ‘butt/face’ towel…ha.

My white elephant loot

I couldn’t have picked a better gift from the pile.  It was a large coffee mug [you can never have too many cups in a new apartment] with a colorful bouncy ball that Adam will love.  Bonus points for the fact that it came in an cute box that will be perfect for holding my trinkets.  J also gave Tatum ‘The Donald’– a baby toupee!– and some sweet potato puffs.  Our pastor was kind enough to present us with a very generous Starbucks card and fudge.  It takes lots of coffee and sweets to make a church function smoothly!  ;)

It meant so much to me that Brandi came.  While I don’t let it detract from my professionalism and the work I do for the church, everyone knows I’ve been through some rough times lately.  Having a friend from the ‘outside’ made me feel normal and I know Brandi loved getting to meet these incredible people.  Endless thanks to R & P, our chauffeurs for the evening.

I felt terrible yesterday and even worse today but it was so worth it to have a delightful evening with my coworkers and Brandi.  We’re already excited about 2012′s soiree!

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Days 11-16

Here is some much needed reflection on my part.  No matter how ‘bad’ I think I have it….there are always countless people who have it much, much worse.  I am eternally grateful.  

Don and his co-pilot in Afghanistan, '08

11)  It wouldn’t be the land of the free if it wasn’t the home of the brave– I am so thankful for our veterans– especially my dad and all of my friends who have served in the military.  Although every role serves a vital function in our armed forces, it boggles my mind all that is required of soldiers in combat and their families.  What a sacrifice.  Thank you.

12)  Two words:  my attorney.

13)  I’d like to take a moment to acknowledge every ‘hater’ or anyone who has ever tried to hurt me or wanted me to fail.  People like you make my happiness and accomplishments that much sweeter!  Perhaps this isn’t the most mature statement I’ve ever uttered but it’s always nice to prove people wrong.  Success is the sweetest revenge.  ;)

14)  Il Cortile makes my heart happy.  I’ve only been there once– and have no idea when I can afford to eat there again– but it’s comforting just knowing it’s there waiting on me.

15)  The fact that I’ll never stop hoping, dreaming, and planning is a reason to give thanks.  I’ve already got an idea for a really promising and beneficial non-profit that won’t require much of an initial financial investment.  Obviously I don’t have the proper time to devote to it now but I can’t wait until things settle and I can get started.  There will never be enough time in my life for all the schooling and experience I want….and that’s exactly the way I like it.

16)  So many little things bring a smile to my face.  Whether it’s the man who drops his old magazines off for me at the office, an unexpected coffee from my coworker, bus drivers who give me a break [knowing that I usually have a pass], the supportive teachers at Adam’s school, or the staff at two local organizations that put us on a special Thanksgiving list– these things make my day and mean the world to me.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Il Cortile is my new best friend

One of the best things I've ever put in my mouth.

Within the first week of my job the pastor made a horrible mistake:  he mentioned Italian food to yours truly.  Being the intrepid employee I am, I took it upon myself to Google the restaurant and salivate over their dishes.  When I finally made it to Il Cortile for lunch on Friday [a weekly food indulgence keeps me sane] I didn’t need to consult the menu I’d already memorized– but of course I did anyway– and I treated myself to the delectable caprese salad pictured here and ravioli con ricotta e spinaci.  It was absolutely divine.  I cannot recommend this restaurant enough.  Small animals would be sacrificed if I could have a caprese salad every day.  Just the mere mention of it has me longing….

In other news, the thing was identified by my coworker.  It’s a potato bug.  Apparently they are relatively common out here, though as the name implies found in more of an agricultural setting.  Let’s hope I never see one again.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane