Memorial Day 2013

“America’s fighting men and women sacrifice much to ensure that our great nation stays free. We owe a debt of gratitude to the soldiers that have paid the ultimate price for this cause, as well as for those who are blessed enough to return from the battlefield unscathed.” ~ Allen Boyd

mdcardI’ll never tire of making family cards that feature both of my children.  In the same photo.  Without the help of the WhatsGoLa app.  Thank you, RedStamp.

I love having a mom who thinks to do stuff like this.

I love having a mom who thinks to do stuff like this.

Memorial Day for this family was blissfully ordinary.  Dad and I went to Walmart [how's that for a slice of Americana?!] with the kids in tow.  In addition to Happy Meals [to further show our appreciation of all things USA] for Adam and Tatum, we grabbed a few grocery items and a new tire for my bicycle.  Once we got home Tatum took a nap.  Adam and Dad piddled around in the garage while I took a bath.  Then I cooked dinner while Mom made the tasty creation pictured above.  Life doesn’t get any better.

The view of the flag at my parents' house

The view of the flag from the garage at my parents’ house

Our surprise visitors were the icing on our patriotic cake.  Catching the five of us under one roof requires advanced planning….yet Krystal Hooper pulled off this feat with luck alone.  Adam’s going through a ‘girls have cooties’ phase so he didn’t quite feel the love when Krystal reminded him that she used to change his diapers.  We were standing outside in the driveway chatting when her fiancee said something that meant the world to me.  He told me that I was a strong person for surviving California.  To hear that from somebody whom I don’t know very well– who is in the military nonetheless– profoundly affected me.  I kept my cool but I’d like to take a moment to acknowledge what that meant to me.  So thank you, Brian.  Thanks to you both for your continued friendship, constant support, and today’s special visit.

mdgroupWith infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

 

 

Days 11-16

Here is some much needed reflection on my part.  No matter how ‘bad’ I think I have it….there are always countless people who have it much, much worse.  I am eternally grateful.  

Don and his co-pilot in Afghanistan, '08

11)  It wouldn’t be the land of the free if it wasn’t the home of the brave– I am so thankful for our veterans– especially my dad and all of my friends who have served in the military.  Although every role serves a vital function in our armed forces, it boggles my mind all that is required of soldiers in combat and their families.  What a sacrifice.  Thank you.

12)  Two words:  my attorney.

13)  I’d like to take a moment to acknowledge every ‘hater’ or anyone who has ever tried to hurt me or wanted me to fail.  People like you make my happiness and accomplishments that much sweeter!  Perhaps this isn’t the most mature statement I’ve ever uttered but it’s always nice to prove people wrong.  Success is the sweetest revenge.  ;)

14)  Il Cortile makes my heart happy.  I’ve only been there once– and have no idea when I can afford to eat there again– but it’s comforting just knowing it’s there waiting on me.

15)  The fact that I’ll never stop hoping, dreaming, and planning is a reason to give thanks.  I’ve already got an idea for a really promising and beneficial non-profit that won’t require much of an initial financial investment.  Obviously I don’t have the proper time to devote to it now but I can’t wait until things settle and I can get started.  There will never be enough time in my life for all the schooling and experience I want….and that’s exactly the way I like it.

16)  So many little things bring a smile to my face.  Whether it’s the man who drops his old magazines off for me at the office, an unexpected coffee from my coworker, bus drivers who give me a break [knowing that I usually have a pass], the supportive teachers at Adam’s school, or the staff at two local organizations that put us on a special Thanksgiving list– these things make my day and mean the world to me.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Tweakers, birth control, the death penalty, etc.

5 Ways Methamphetamine Can Make You a New Person

Adam painted these in summer school. Aren't they lovely?

Sick and tired of having to justify your crystal meth habit to those sluggish, slow-brained folk?

15 Pregnancy Power Foods

Even if you’re not pregnant you should take a glimpse at these nutritious foods.  Raw broccoli may not be your idea of culinary bliss so be mindful of how to incorporate the items into dishes you enjoy.  I was pleasantly surprised how….common…a lot of these things were and how much of them I already like.  [[Sidenote: While I am on pregnancy and parenting websites daily-- I try to only share the ones I think will be most interesting to my readers-- regardless of whether or

not their uterus has an occupant or they claim a dependent other than themselves on their tax return]]

Innocence and the Death Penalty

I found this article through a link on an Amnesty International Piece entitled ’35 Years Of Death Penalty Regret.’  While I’m against the death penalty– though not for ethical reasons– the thought of innocent people facing execution makes me ill.  “Since 1973, 138 people in 26 states have been released from death row with evidence of their innocence.  Not to imply that a person should be found guilty if there is room for reasonable doubt [though it happens all the time]….but nobody should be sentenced to death without incontrovertible proof of their guilt of a heinous crime.

Lesbian marine in California to be jailed after she and girlfriend ‘faked marriages with male colleagues to pocket $75,000 in allowances’

The headline alone caused me to snicker before I even read this; however, there was really nothing funny in the piece.  To make a long story short the marine wanted to live with her civilian girlfriend off-base but couldn’t afford it, thus prompting her to marry a fellow soldier, a male heterosexual.  Of course– reading only the first few sentences– the rabble-rouser in me said: “Haha, look at them making a statement and calling attention to some archaic limitations our society places on love!“  But then we learn that the civilian girlfriend marries a marine as well…..their living arrangements are questioned, the marines are in lots of trouble and their is possible jail time.  Most shockingly, the female marine seemed blissfully unaware that she could get in any sort of trouble for this.  While I applaud the fact that she did not hide her girlfriend, she should have fully understood the consequences, and been willing to take more of an activist stance.  Overall I felt like her attitude and lack of research made her an inappropriate ‘role model’ [if you can even call her that] for the cause and A) it’s absolutely ridiculous that the military– though they certainly aren’t the only organization guilty of this– doesn’t respect and honor those who serve equally and B) marriage is still defined by gender as opposed to love.

Birth control, exams to cost more at Planned Parenthood

Budget cuts in Davidson County [Nashville, TN] put Planned Parenthood in a bind.  Sadly this is all too common at Planned Parenthoods throughout the nation.  Select staunch conservatives erroneously equate this crucial organization with an ‘abortion factory’– I actually heard that phrase used somewhere!– but your personal beliefs about a woman’s right to choose should not negate the importance of Planned Parenthood.  If you disagree with some of the services they provide, take your business elsewhere.  Don’t forget that they provide gynecological services to low-income and/or uninsured women, contraceptives, and disease testing.  We desperately need this.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Independence Day

Our Fourth of July was wonderful. All three of us exercised our right to sleep late and relax. Sometimes a lazy morning just hits the spot. ;)

Adam and his lady love, Carley <3

Will hasn’t followed the trial closely– he didn’t even know the charges against the defendant– but even he tuned in yesterday as the jury began deliberations. Neither one of us anticipates a lengthy wait. I would never want to rush a jury encourage them to be anything less than thorough….but I’m so ready to see the verdict. Anything less than guiltyfor all counts does not do justice for Caylee– though I do not necessarily think the defendant will be found guilty of first degree murder.  UPDATE:  THE VERDICT IS IN!!  12:50 CST

What did you do to celebrate Independence Day? I know I felt overwhelmed with gratitude for our military, while wishing all of the men and women serving our country were safe within our boundaries. Read the poignant story of Cpl. Andrew C. Wilfarht, killed in Afghanistan this February. His parents honor his legacy by their active participation in the quest for equal rights for all. While nobody will argue that Cpl. Wilfarht was an outstanding person– a brave soul, a true American Hero– I believe the same can be said for his parents, Jeff and Lori. Thinking about our troops reaffirmed my commitment to Feed Our Vets– I am determined to launch a Memphis chapter of this incredible organization.

With fireworks and food in tow we headed to Nathan and Danielle’s for a cookout. Watching Adam, Carley, and Ethan enjoy the fireworks and play with their sparklers [no sparkler for Ethan due to age restrictions!] was a blast. Danielle and I made a beverage run and the boys watched the kids and cooked for us. We both joked that we could definitely get used to that arrangement– girl time knowing our children are in the most capable hands– AND there’s delicious food waiting upon our return?! Yes please!

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Alpha! Delta! Bravo!

Soldier on a mission

 

.Yeah, I don’t know how to properly use those words in context but I hear them in movies, know Charlie is the bad guy, and wanted a witty title.  In the past I’ve titled a post about her ‘G.I. Jane’– and I still call her that affectionately– but seeing this action shot of her on her

Top.

Secret.

Army.

Mission.

made me so proud! Forgive me for sounding crass but she looks like she is kicking ass and taking names. Every time she shares a military photo with us I get unnaturally excited. Never in my life have I seen a person want something so badly and work so hard to get it. She’s such an inspiration to me. So much so I think I might wave an American flag while I eat a hot dog, watch baseball, and drink an ice cold Budweiser. Thank you, Krystal, for serving our county so that people such as myself don’t have to. ;)

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane