Video footage starring Adam

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

MBC11

• March Blog Challenge •
Day 11: Last book you read

For those of you unfamiliar with Damien Echols and the ‘West Memphis Three’ here is some background.

Let it be known that I have researched this case extensively. It takes more than a celebrity endorsement or a buzzworthy film for me jump on the bandwagon. I’ve done my homework.

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West Memphis, AR is ‘right across the bridge’ from downtown Memphis. At the time of the tragic deaths, I was the same age as those three little boys, only six years old. The killer[s] of Stevie Branch, Christopher Byers, and Michael Moore literally got away with murder.

This case is one that’s been on my radar for years. Not only do I have an inherent understanding of life in the Bible Belt of the deep south, but I know all too well what it’s like to be on the fringe in high school under these conditions. Deviation from the mainstream is often viewed with ignorance, scorn, fear, or all of the above. A wardrobe filled with black and a taste for hardcore music solicit stares. The whispers begin. Interest in counterculture and alternative spiritualities really gets people talking. Society eyes the stereotypical ostracized teenager [outcast, freak, weird, scary, etc.] with suspicion, which quickly escalates into a mob mentality when a scapegoat is needed. Guilty until proven innocent. Toss a bunch of ideas around and see if anything sticks. No matter how absurd the claim, once the seed is planted, the damage is done. Some people get railroaded without ever knowing what hit them. Rights get violated. Not everyone is equal in the eyes of the law. Preposterous allegations become fact while irrefutable evidence to the contrary never sees the light of day.

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Don’t even get me started on the colossal failure of the judicial system….

I leave you with a handful of quotes from within the pages and two critical reviews that resonated with me.

“Everyone puts on their Sunday best and pays tribute to religion’s slaughterhouse and then dines on a cannibal communion. Education is foreign to the sunburned beasts of burden, and the painkiller comes in black-labeled Tennessee bottles. No one here moves quickly, but everyone moves with absolute certainty.”

“I’ve seen men who were haunted to the point of madness by things that never were and things that should have been….The ghosts in fire freeze and the ghosts in ice burn. Some died long ago; some were never born. Some ride the blood in my veins until it reaches my brain. Sometimes I even mistake myself for one. Sometimes I am one.”

“I want a life of strife, lust, striving, seeking, struggling, and debauchery.”

“Any friendship that is worth it’s weight is like a dark and secret place where you hide bits of yourself. The door can be opened only by the two people who have the key, and you carry it with you wherever you go. Magnify that by a billion, and you begin to get an idea of what marriage is like.”

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“Damien Echols spent eighteen years on death row for murders he did not commit. Somehow, in the depths of his unspeakable nightmare, he found the courage and strength not only to survive, but to grow, to create, to forgive, and to understand. Life After Death is a brilliant, haunting, painful, and uplifting narrative of a hopeless childhood, a wrongful conviction, a brutal incarceration, and the beginning of a new life.” – John Grisham

“The life of Damien Echols is a journey similar to that of the metal that becomes a samurai’s sword. Heated and pounded until it becomes hardened, it can hold its edge for centuries. It is incredible that Damien endured and survived one of the most tragic miscarriages of American justice, and emerged such a centered, articulate and extraordinary man and writer. Life After Death proves that he paid dearly for his wisdom. – Henry Rollins

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

End. In. Sight.

ADAM IS GOING HOME.
The end is in sight. But it’s not over yet.

Our prayers were answered with the news from court last week. CWS and the Judge ruled in favor of Adam’s return to Memphis. He can finally see– for the first time– the little sister he’s been desperate to meet!

Here on the central coast of California the day centered around the Family Court verdict. Meanwhile, 2000 miles east in Collierville, Tennessee….

A cake was placed in front of Tatum who wasted no time getting messy. Her adoring fans clapped and sang happy birthday. Amid a backdrop of pink feathers, frills, and girly decor my daughter experienced first birthday party.

Party photos coming within 24 hours. Questions will be answered and additional information will be provided soon. Daily posts shall resume early next week.
+ Always feel free to contact me via email:
sloanewreed@gmail.com

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

The hearings are finished.

Our last snow in Memphis - '11

Dare I say the end is finally in sight?  Court today went quite well.  Changes and omissions were made to the official report that helped me immensely, so for that I was grateful.  Not surprisingly I did not have to testify.  The other 50% of Adam’s genetic material didn’t take the stand either– though originally he was supposed to– so I’m assuming his public defender nixed that idea after realizing that doing so would be a tremendous disservice to his client.  Despite the fact that the testimony would have been quite beneficial for us, I’m perfectly fine with the fact that it never saw the light of day.  Let other parties incriminate themselves in other ways.  My focus is Adam…and that involves only me, myself, and I.

One of the numerous benefits of having an attorney who is a self-professed ‘curmudgeon’ involves the security and confidence I feel whenever I’m in the courthouse.  It’s as if I’m emitting a Don’t Mess With Me vibe because I’m part of this formidable duo.  Strike that.  He does all the dirty work while I stand protected under the shade of his umbrella-ella-ella.  Although I must say I’m a fabulous witness for our cause because I always maintain my dignity and composure, do not waver from the truth, refuse to be intimidated, and stand up for myself– which is probably why nobody ever wants me to speak.  ;)

All trials and/or hearings are FINISHED.  It is now the responsibility of CPS to present their official custody recommendation.  That occurs on January 25th.  Because they are required to utilize a certain amount of days and also the typical calendar coordination amongst attorneys, that was the first available day.  After this horrific ordeal for my son and my subsequent legal battle– grueling enough even for a woman who is not pregnant– to finally have a date for results motivates me to get through this final stretch.  I’m not going to speculate on the outcome or give a specific time frame.  Knowing my luck and the snail’s pace at which this system moves I can envision it now:  the CPS worker hands the judge her recommendation where I have sole custody and a check for a million dollars for my grievances.  The judge notices the CPS worker’s nail polish is smudged.  “I see your fingers were recently manicured.  Did the toxic fumes you were exposed to in the salon affect your judgment?  Let’s take an additional two weeks to make sure you don’t change your mind.  After those two weeks have elapsed we’ll coordinate our calendars and see if there are additions to be made to the report and if there are we’ll have a continuance sometime after Tatum’s first birthday…..”

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane