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Day 11: Last book you read

For those of you unfamiliar with Damien Echols and the ‘West Memphis Three’ here is some background.

Let it be known that I have researched this case extensively. It takes more than a celebrity endorsement or a buzzworthy film for me jump on the bandwagon. I’ve done my homework.

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West Memphis, AR is ‘right across the bridge’ from downtown Memphis. At the time of the tragic deaths, I was the same age as those three little boys, only six years old. The killer[s] of Stevie Branch, Christopher Byers, and Michael Moore literally got away with murder.

This case is one that’s been on my radar for years. Not only do I have an inherent understanding of life in the Bible Belt of the deep south, but I know all too well what it’s like to be on the fringe in high school under these conditions. Deviation from the mainstream is often viewed with ignorance, scorn, fear, or all of the above. A wardrobe filled with black and a taste for hardcore music solicit stares. The whispers begin. Interest in counterculture and alternative spiritualities really gets people talking. Society eyes the stereotypical ostracized teenager [outcast, freak, weird, scary, etc.] with suspicion, which quickly escalates into a mob mentality when a scapegoat is needed. Guilty until proven innocent. Toss a bunch of ideas around and see if anything sticks. No matter how absurd the claim, once the seed is planted, the damage is done. Some people get railroaded without ever knowing what hit them. Rights get violated. Not everyone is equal in the eyes of the law. Preposterous allegations become fact while irrefutable evidence to the contrary never sees the light of day.

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Don’t even get me started on the colossal failure of the judicial system….

I leave you with a handful of quotes from within the pages and two critical reviews that resonated with me.

“Everyone puts on their Sunday best and pays tribute to religion’s slaughterhouse and then dines on a cannibal communion. Education is foreign to the sunburned beasts of burden, and the painkiller comes in black-labeled Tennessee bottles. No one here moves quickly, but everyone moves with absolute certainty.”

“I’ve seen men who were haunted to the point of madness by things that never were and things that should have been….The ghosts in fire freeze and the ghosts in ice burn. Some died long ago; some were never born. Some ride the blood in my veins until it reaches my brain. Sometimes I even mistake myself for one. Sometimes I am one.”

“I want a life of strife, lust, striving, seeking, struggling, and debauchery.”

“Any friendship that is worth it’s weight is like a dark and secret place where you hide bits of yourself. The door can be opened only by the two people who have the key, and you carry it with you wherever you go. Magnify that by a billion, and you begin to get an idea of what marriage is like.”

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“Damien Echols spent eighteen years on death row for murders he did not commit. Somehow, in the depths of his unspeakable nightmare, he found the courage and strength not only to survive, but to grow, to create, to forgive, and to understand. Life After Death is a brilliant, haunting, painful, and uplifting narrative of a hopeless childhood, a wrongful conviction, a brutal incarceration, and the beginning of a new life.” – John Grisham

“The life of Damien Echols is a journey similar to that of the metal that becomes a samurai’s sword. Heated and pounded until it becomes hardened, it can hold its edge for centuries. It is incredible that Damien endured and survived one of the most tragic miscarriages of American justice, and emerged such a centered, articulate and extraordinary man and writer. Life After Death proves that he paid dearly for his wisdom. – Henry Rollins

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

Major developments with the West Memphis 3

What will happen tomorrow?

Megan Childers set the wheels in motion when she shared this headline with me:   Judge sets unexpected hearing in Jonesboro for West Memphis 3.  Shortly thereafter Brittany Cole posted this development from WREG in Memphis:  West Memphis 3: Two, Including Echols, Will Be Released Friday.  Local sources confirmed it too:  Speculation mounts on freedom for West Memphis 3 UPDATE.

While I knew critical events were going to unfold in the near future, I had no idea it would be this soon.  Megan, Brittany, and I could barely contain our enthusiasm during our exchanges on Facebook today….but I must resist the urge to feed into the frenzy and speculate preemptively.  I’ll wait until tomorrow before I speak any further.  You know I’ll be glued to the television around 9 am Pacific time– for once in my life I am glad I am a ‘homemaker’ working from my computer so I can see this in real time!

However, as Megan mentioned, there absolutely must be some sort of safeguard in place so the state can’t be sued.  Perhaps that explains why there is a guilty verdict when the three steadfastly maintained their innocence for almost twenty years.  And if Damien is rumored to be released, will it be Jason or Jessie that is not, and why?  On a final note, a quote from my friend from Neshoba, Bruce Ralston:  “They don’t let convicted felons out of jail just because they admit guilt. As far as I know, the only two ways that convicted felons can be freed ahead of schedule are: (A) pardon/clemency; or (B) by having the charges thrown out, which means that the verdict of guilty is overturned completely. There is such a thing as getting a new trial and being released in the interim, and there have been sentences have been reduced to time served for one reason or another, but this doesn’t smell like either of those situations.”  Food for thought.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Getting away with murder?

Antoine Dodson spoke the truth.

Universally speaking, most people agree that each of these defendants are guilty of murder– and they got away with it.  While O.J. Simpson’s ex-wife and her friend were killed [in my opinion] in a coldblooded and premeditated crime, I believe Casey Anthony accidentally killed her daughter– though she was playing with lethal fire in her attempts to sedate her– and panicked.  So many individuals seemed shocked that both of these criminals walked free.  Did the prosecution failed to meet their burden?  Or was the defense just that phenomenal?  Maybe both?  I think much larger questions are raised with certain acquittals…..gender, race, socioeconomic status, the caliber of lawyers & witnesses, celebrity, and even whether or not somebody is considered attractive. 

I remember seeing the O.J. trial when I was ten.  More than any specific evidence I can recall the impassioned pleas of Nicole Brown Simpson’s sister and Ron Goldman’s parents, wanting justice.  While their loss is no less tragic– and two relatively young lives were cut short– at least the families can take some degree of comfort knowing they had lived life.  Caylee never even had a chance.

People will be outraged for awhile but soon enough the feelings will fade and some will forget.  For others, that will be impossible. This isn’t Nancy Grace’s trial du jour…..and for those who have been involved since the very beginning– we won’t ever keep this far from our minds.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

What a day

Another sweet little lamb gone too soon...

Between this being the anniversary of the absolute worst day of my life and finding out that Casey Anthony will be released from jail in a few days…..I am just beside myself.  There have been enough tears shed today though I’m probably nowhere near depleting the reserves.  It’s time for some comic relief in the form of bad parenting on Facebook.

With infinite lobe, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

This verdict is like a bad dream

Sean Krause, I miss you so. Your videos bring a smile to my face and a fighting spirit to my soul. Please go haunt Casey Anthony now.

I know there have been quite a few people– regardless of their opinions on Casey Anthony’s guilt or innocence– who believe that the prosecution did not meet their burden and the evidence was lacking. That’s precisely how jurors should analyze the information, as objectively as possible without succumbing to emotions and rampant speculation. However, I assert that there WAS ample evidence to warrant a guilty verdict on the charges of aggravated child abuse and aggravated manslaughter. Eventually I will share my reasoning [backed by evidence] with you as to why I believe the defendant is guilty….but I cannot even begin to give a time frame for when you should expect to see that due to its novel-length. The end is finally in sight for my piece on ‘Zanny The Nanny’– what a heartbreaking tale. Not only would Caylee still be alive if anyone ever insisted on meeting the fictitious caregivers but it speaks volumes about the bizarre family dynamic of the Anthony’s and how they cater to their pathological liar of a daughter.

[[ David Lohr – The Huffington Post ]]

Casey Anthony Juror: Sick To Our Stomachs Over Verdict

Legal Experts: Casey Will Be Released From Jail

If the defendant who got away with murder walks free tomorrow…..my mind just can’t even comprehend that.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Not guilty

Casey Anthony: NOT GUILTY.

Sickened, disgusted, frustrated, saddened, angered, betrayed…..all of these are adequate descriptions of my response to the verdict. One thing I am not, however, is shocked. From the very beginning I had a sinking feeling that the defendant would not be charged with murder in the first degree. Before I proceed let me refresh your memory on the exact charges and a brief description of each:

  • First degree murder: NOT GUILTY

    Subdivided into premeditated [planned and willful] or felony [a death occurs-- even if it is an accident-- from certain violent felonies such as kidnapping] though a distinction was not necessary nor did the jurors have to agree on which type of murder in the first degree

  • Aggravated child abuse: NOT GUILTY

    Committing an aggravated battery [intentionally causing physical harm] on a child; willfully torturing, maliciously punishing, or willfully and unlawfully caging a child; or knowingly and willfully abusing a child and in doing so causing great bodily harm, permanent disability, or permanent disfigurement

  • Aggravated manslaughter of a child: NOT GUILTY

    Recklessly causing the death of a minor under circumstances manifesting extreme indifference to human life

  • (4 counts) Providing false information to a law enforcement officer: GUILTY

    I don’t think this requires an explanation.

* Summarizations from Florida attorney Richard Hornsby’s website

We won't forget you

Let’s not mince words here: you’d have to be a buffoon to NOT find Casey Anthony guilty of criminal activity. Her tangled web of lies and deceit shows a cunning young woman with little regard for anyone but herself. Undoubtedly– by her own admission– she told multiple fabrications to the police and lead them on a wild goose chase, so it’s no surprise she was indicted for those four charges. As for her treatment towards her precious daughter, whether you believe she was ‘merely a bad parent’ [and I put that in quotations only because neglecting and/or abusing her child were the least of her judicial concerns] or a cold-blooded killer who premeditated the murder of her daughter…..there is no question she was a terrible mother who resented her own flesh and blood for hindering the carefree lifestyle of a party girl that she so desperately wanted. Her appalling behavior as a person and failure as a parent should not go unpunished.

The jurors must be convinced that the prosecution proved beyond a reasonable doubt that the defendant was guilty of each charge. As I previously stared, I did not think there would be a murder one charge because of the lack of hard evidence. All signs point to the defendant’s [I don't even want to use the bitch's name] guilt but our legal system requires a verdict derived from analysis of the facts and evidence directly presented in trial– not speculation or character analysis– even if it is blatantly obvious her hands are dirty. Leaving murder out of the equation…I think the state met the burden of proof for both charges of child abuse, so I was surprised at the acquittal there. Furthermore, I’ll never understand why negligence charges were not included, especially after the discovery of the fictitious ‘Zanny the Nanny.’  If there was no nanny, where was Caylee while Casey was out doing god knows what?!

Megan Childers, one of my close friends who has been following the trial since day one, shared my beliefs about the outcome of the verdict. She drew an interesting parallel to the West Memphis 3. People have been sentenced to death with a lot less evidence than we saw in this case, and it can also work the opposite way. Our justice system is deeply flawed….guilty people get away with murder and innocents are wrongfully accused and placed on death row.

The defendant’s verdict in the court of public opinion was reached long ago. She’ll never be able to live a normal life. What absolutely sickens me is the prospect of her using this trial for financial gain. If she profits from the loss of her little girl– death at her hands [although I do believe it was an accident]– I hope Caylee comes back to haunt her. Seeing her tears of happiness and her huge grin today made me want to vomit. Her cold, detached, and emotionless demeanor gave way to an overjoyed and victorious manipulator. Of course she’s happy! She wins. Not only did she get away with it, she’ll be out of prison in no time at all.

I'm so sorry, Caylee

If the ruling and the defendant’s behavior wasn’t nauseating enough– watching the grins and embraces of the defense and seeing Jose Baez’s press conference sent me over the edge. He’s just as smug and arrogant as she is. The nerve of him to sit there and start thanking his family [especially that wonderful sidebar in his native tongue] was so beyond inappropriate. How tacky. Thanking your family?! An innocent child was murdered, he acted like a charlatan in the courtroom, and he’s talking about how proud he is that his healthy and living kids will praise their Daddy for doing his job? Shame on you. It’s not the Academy Awards, jackass.

Her family’s reaction says it all: Lee didn’t even bother to attend. George and Cindy didn’t smile or hug each other, they walked out of the court with their heads down. Casey destroyed her family. They know she did it and they know she got away with it. Despite the fact that her mother perjured….even they know justice was not served.  Like many people I think George Anthony has details he’s not divulging– though I do feel an immense deal of sympathy [more for him than anyone else in that ridiculous family]– but I am confident that he did not ever molest his daughter nor did he cover up the ‘accidental drowning’ of his beloved granddaughter.

What terrifies me is the idea of the defendant having more children. You know there are men out there who have been writing her incessantly and would marry her. She’ll still be within the limits of her biological clock when she’s released. But honestly, I’m not too scared about that….because I don’t think she’ll be alive for long once she’s in the free world. I do not in any way condone violence– and especially not murder– but I have a strong feeling she will be shot and killed as she’s leaving prison or shortly thereafter. Too many people were affected so deeply by this case and are absolutely incensed over the acquittal. As terrible as this sounds, I would not be surprised if it was a suburban soccer mom who drives her kids around in a minivan that pulls the trigger. This case has affected people in ways I have never seen.

I know Sean Krause is rolling over in his grave right now. Forgive my strong language, but this verdict was a big F*CK YOU to Caylee. That poor little girl died…..for what? Nobody will ever pay the price for cutting her life short so cruelly and unnecessarily. And that is a tragedy of epic proportions. Caylee, people will never forget you, nor will they ever stop talking or demanding justice and accountability– your death will not be in vain. I’m so sorry they failed you today. Rest in peace, sweet angel.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Independence Day

Our Fourth of July was wonderful. All three of us exercised our right to sleep late and relax. Sometimes a lazy morning just hits the spot. ;)

Adam and his lady love, Carley <3

Will hasn’t followed the trial closely– he didn’t even know the charges against the defendant– but even he tuned in yesterday as the jury began deliberations. Neither one of us anticipates a lengthy wait. I would never want to rush a jury encourage them to be anything less than thorough….but I’m so ready to see the verdict. Anything less than guiltyfor all counts does not do justice for Caylee– though I do not necessarily think the defendant will be found guilty of first degree murder.  UPDATE:  THE VERDICT IS IN!!  12:50 CST

What did you do to celebrate Independence Day? I know I felt overwhelmed with gratitude for our military, while wishing all of the men and women serving our country were safe within our boundaries. Read the poignant story of Cpl. Andrew C. Wilfarht, killed in Afghanistan this February. His parents honor his legacy by their active participation in the quest for equal rights for all. While nobody will argue that Cpl. Wilfarht was an outstanding person– a brave soul, a true American Hero– I believe the same can be said for his parents, Jeff and Lori. Thinking about our troops reaffirmed my commitment to Feed Our Vets– I am determined to launch a Memphis chapter of this incredible organization.

With fireworks and food in tow we headed to Nathan and Danielle’s for a cookout. Watching Adam, Carley, and Ethan enjoy the fireworks and play with their sparklers [no sparkler for Ethan due to age restrictions!] was a blast. Danielle and I made a beverage run and the boys watched the kids and cooked for us. We both joked that we could definitely get used to that arrangement– girl time knowing our children are in the most capable hands– AND there’s delicious food waiting upon our return?! Yes please!

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Closing arguments

Rest in peace, Caylee

As I write this court is adjourned for lunch. Once the jury returns the closing arguments will resume. What are your thoughts regarding any new developments or major bombshells revealed during the proceedings? Let us all hope that Caylee gets justice.

Though I have been unable to follow the trial as I wanted to….within these next few days I will publish my ‘Zanny the Nanny’ piece, what stood out the most to me from the courtroom, and my prediction as to the verdict [and subsequent response once it has arrived]. In the meantime I encourage you all to become the thirteenth juror with David Lohr and formulate your own opinions.  Also read his description of today’s events.  What do you think the verdict will be?

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Sidewalk chalk, The Teflon Cauldron, and sooty mangabeys

Family gardens and a ‘pizza pot’ project

We’re so excited about our family garden! I told my husband that all I wanted for my birthday was my own little section of soil ready to be planted. Even if you aren’t looking to make gardening an educational activity with your children, there are excellent tips in the article for making the most out of your space with a container garden. The idea of plucking something from the backyard and incorporating it into a meal thrills me.

Sidewalk chalk

My friend, Jessica, shared this link with us. Adam’s only played with sidewalk chalk a few times because it’s one of those products that I always forget exists. Now I won’t have that as an excuse anymore because I’ll just whip up a batch of my own. Much like the garden, this is another fun summer project that is great for families but certainly doesn’t require kids….or anyone other than your adult self for that matter.

‘Casey Anthony Trial Pits Mother Against Son’

Another comprehensive article from David Lohr on The Huffington Post. I’ll continue to link to his articles throughout the trial. Please explore his other articles on the Post if you haven’t already as he is one of my absolute favorite reporters.

Obsessed?

Are you a mom who is becoming obsessed with the Casey Anthony trial? An interesting phenomenon….

What happened to Christian Choate is horrific beyond words– the negligence of DHS is appalling– and everyone that had a chance to save this boy and failed to act should be prosecuted

How can anyone hurt a child, much less their own? Hearing about the torment suffered by kids at the hands of adults is so profoundly disturbing….but we need to keep the spotlight of the public on these instances so we are compelled to act. Forty years ago child abuse was a taboo topic. We’re far from where we need to be as a society and in terms of law enforcement and government involvement– yet the more we acknowledge this disturbing epidemic the more we can do to work towards its eradication.

The Teflon Cauldron

Want to know about modern paganism in the Mid-South area? Check out the newly revamped Teflon Cauldron and offer your input for what you want to see. As I’ve stated many times, I am so proud to be a part of a spiritual community that encourages all religious traditions.

Does this monkey hold the cure for AIDS?

I’ve heard rumblings about this before…..and I really hope that scientists are onto something here. But I can’t get over the photo here. Sooty mangabeys looks fierce. He knows he’s he’s got this.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

Trial updates

Keeping up with the trial for the purposes of this blog is something I can no longer do…..I’m struggling enough to follow the daily proceedings without the added burden of translating them into posts. Forgive me for my lack of coverage. I’ll share with you some of the best places to get sources regarding the Casey Anthony murder trial:

  1. David Lohr on The Huffington PostNot only did Mr. Lohr know my dear friend, Sean Krause, but he is an excellent crime reporter. Three of his most recent articles on the case are:  Spectators Fight Outside Courthouse; Trial Lawyers Raise Incest Issues, Question FBI Witness About Paternity Tests; and Angry Judge Scolds Both Sides.
  2. Twitter@Trial Notes [the most comprehensive up-to-the minute reviews]

    @issueswjvm [Jane Velez-Mitchell]

    @TeamNancyHLN [Nancy Grace]

    * A #CaseyAnthony tag yields results as well, but as always, consider the source.

  3. The Orlando SentinelHands down, this is some of the best information out there. Not only are there links to countless documents, chronological major events are displayed along the current trial highlights, and there is a live stream.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

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