MBC18

• March Blog Challenge •
Day 18: Where are you happiest?

Does anyone else feel like these questions [or at least my answers to them] are getting redundant?

A foolproof way to ensure my happiness? Take me to the beach. Be it Pacific, Atlantic, or Gulf of Mexico…as long as I can gaze at an ocean while hearing the waves crash against the shore.

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My godkids love the beach as well. The twins [and their parents] spent spring break in Florida. I adore this picture of them.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

Natural anxiety relief

How fortunate I am to live in one of the most beautiful places in the country.  There’s been no shortage of ugliness in San Luis Obispo County, yet as soon as I round that curve going south on the 101 and the Pacific Ocean magically appears….I feel better instantly.  While there are countless places that offer seaside access, my preferred spot is a residential street in Pismo Beach near the Marie Callendar’s restaurant.  After parking I waddle down the seemingly endless stairs until I get to the sand.  My pants always get soaked– I can’t be on a beach without at least making contact with the water– and there’s sand in my car for the next week.  No matter how thoroughly I brush myself off both before and after getting into Wanda, sand manages to find its way into my apartment too.  I can easily sit here for hours on end.  It is a calm, safe, and happy place for me.

Because I didn’t discover this little slice of paradise until I had a vehicle, Adam’s never been here with me.  I can’t wait to show it to him.  When we pack a picnic lunch and bring Tatum he’s going to be so delighted.  Although I’ve vacationed at the beach plenty of times I’ve never actually lived near the water, and Adam had never been to the beach prior to our arrival in California– so this is new experience for our little family.  Some of the locals say you tire of the beach after a while.  Honestly I don’t see how that could happen…ever.

I am blessed to see the wonder of creation around me.  As soon as I catch that first glimpse of ocean, my entire mood is transformed.  Optimism replaces pessimism; serenity replaces anxiety; faith replaces helplessness; quiet determination replaces anger; a feeling of contentment [albeit temporarily] eases my sorrow; and the sunshine warming my body and the breeze tickling my face replaces my isolation.  I am not alone.

While I’m no photographer, I think these images fulfill my mission:  showing you as best I can what I see from my vantage point.  Even the most stunning shots typically don’t do a gorgeous place justice.  I give thanks for living in a place of great beauty.  Something tells me I wouldn’t be experiencing the full cathartic effect of nature if I lived in a place such as….Detroit.  My sacred spot is the first family outing I have planned once I have recovered from my surgery.

 

10 days until Tatum arrives.  <3

 

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane

Beach love

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Adam kisses Tatum at Grover Beach <3

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,
Sloane

Adam does the beach

Family shot on foggy Morro Bay

Mother/son moment in Caycucos

His cousins buried him in the sand!

Daddy helped with the burial process

He loved playing in the water

 

Yesterday we experienced our first family trip to the beach!!  We visited Morro Bay and Caycucos.  Although it certainly didn’t keep the kids [or Will and me for that matter] I was surprised by how cold the water was…..though it’s been years since I have been to any beaches that weren’t on Florida’s Gulf Coast.  Poor Adam couldn’t stop shivering until we dried him off and buried him in the sand.  ;)

Aunt Nita, Uncle David, Kayla, and her three kids came with us.  I know Adam cannot get enough of all the new cousins he has to play with here.  And I’ll never get over the fact that there are so many BEACHES around us.  As soon as I give birth learning how to surf is at the top of my list.  Our new home is so wonderful.  Between the ocean, gorgeous scenery, comfortable temperatures, and the fact that we’re in wine country [another postpartum joy to experience!] we’re in paradise.

With infinite love, gratitude, and respect,

Sloane